Chi Chi – Been Married For Three Years

Dear Chi Chi,

I married my husband three years ago. We met whiles we were in University. At the time we got married we both did not have Jobs. But a year into the marriage I got a job with a bank whiles my husband keeps doing his side business that is uber and selling phones.

My problem is I have met someone during work, which is making me really confused he is really nice to me. He takes me out for lunch and sometimes gives me money. We have had sex a couple of times and I am getting really attached to him.

He brought up the idea that I should divorce my husband and we get married.

I really love him and I do not know what to do. I also don know how to end it. I wish I had not started.

From: Uganda